But It's Not My Fault: Help Kids 5-9 Learn How to Take Responsibility (Responsible Me!)

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE all of her books! I can't say enough about them except I think these books should be mandatory for all teachers! I love how simple the books are to read and she always gives good advice at the end on how to incorporate the coping mechanisms. I am an Occupational Therapist, single mother of 2 girls ages 8 and 10, and a Girl Scout leader to two troops. Julia Cook's book have helped me explain to my "kids" emotional and physical "conditions" in a non-judgmental and inspiring way. I HIGHLY RECOMMEND ALL OF HER BOOKS!!!!! I also recommend you get her accompanying workbook for teachers which she has produced for several of her products. Our favorite books from Julia Cook: My Mouth is Like a Volcano (I only have to say "volcano" to my "kids" and they know they need to wait before interrupting my conversation; it's great having a "code" word so as not to "embarrass" the kids in front of others); It Isn't Easy Being a Verb (my youngest has ADHD - great resource for her); Melvin the Molar (the importance of good oral hygiene); Decibela (inside vs outside voice). I also highly recommend the book Making Friends is an Art, which was co-authored with another person (I believe). All the teachers, and pediatric OT's, I have shared these books with have gone out and immediately purchased and have used with good success. If I could give Julia Cook's books a 10/5 rating, I would. You will NOT be disappointed!!!!

Great book for kids. I use it in mental health therapy with kids in school. Could easily be used by parents, teachers, or anyone working with kids. Great book. It is a little longer, and has bigger words. Normally it works great for anyone 3rd grade an up. I have had some success with younger kids, but it really depends on the kid. I like to emphasize to each child before I start reading that we are learning about responsibility and how blaming or giving excuses is not helpful for us. Otherwise, the first part is Noodle blaming others a lot. For the younger kids it was difficult to keep them focused until the middle/end where learning about responsibility comes in. For some of my students, the first part gave them a great ideas of excuses they could use in the future, and were confused by the middle/end when Noodles behavior was getting redirected. I think the book could have been a little shorter, or personal responsibility could have come in earlier. I have also tried reading to a student, then at another session, going through the book focused on what the people are feeling, or what Noodle could have done to demonstrait personal responsibility in each situation.

Most of Julia Cook's books state they are for 4-10 year old children. As the grandparent of a young teen with Asperger's, I'm here to say her books are usually the only way we can help him to understand whatever the current or new problem might be. We can talk about what he needs to say or do, but it seldom connects, as he will tune out and shut down during a parental lecture. These books have been a godsend. Speaking out of turn and/or interrupting... yep, there's one for that.Tattling, teasing, personal space, choices, responsibility, meltdowns, anxiety, worry, frustration, grief, attitude adjustment - one for each of those too. She has written so many wonderful, easy to read and comprehend, short books on social skills - the one trait so many Aspies share - I think we have purchased them all. Maybe she'll write a few books to help older teens and younger adults refine their social skills ... I'd buy them!

Such an amazing book! My 6 year old son really connected with this book and loved it.

Overall I quite like this book. It is engaging but thought-provoking and provides information at the end for parents/educators. There are also multiple extension activities that can be found on the internet such as on teachers pay teachers. Occasionally I sometimes feel the rhyming element takes away from the clarity of what is being said, Pat. Then that would be the place where the parent/educator could talk more about a concept with a child.

Funny and serious

I have a 4 year old at home and I teach middle school. This book works for both ages. It’s long but worth it. My 4 year old has already requested I read it numerous times to her at home and I KNOW my middle schoolers will definitely make a connection with this book.

I bought this book, and have others by Julia Cook, to use with my students to teach social skills. I've also read these with my son. Amazing books! Not only do they show how most kids thing when in a situation but they also offer good advice on how to handle the situation. My students made a connection between this book and 2 others during our reading lesson which was great! I highly recommend this book and any other book by Julia Cook.

This book is an amazing read. My 5 year old has asked to have it read to her over and over. We were having a problem with ownership in the house, the kids blaming each other for everything and it was just getting frustrating for everyone. This book helped the kids understand its not a big deal to admit they did something wrong. My daughter now routinely says that mistakes are for learning -- she got the basics of that from this book and it's been reinforced at her kindergarten class. Absolutely love it, one of Julia Cook's best books for sure.

Item as described good condition and fast delivery. Top Seller!

Nice story

I did not like the simplicity and the way it speaks about fault. I won't probably use it, even though the idea is good.

I loved that the book used valid situations to show how we are responsible for our choices both good and bad.