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title: "You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation Paperback – July 24, 2001"
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# You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation Paperback – July 24, 2001

**Brand:** deborah tannen
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- **What is this?** You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation Paperback – July 24, 2001 by deborah tannen
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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    Great book for anyone! Especially English learners
  

*by S***M on Reviewed in the United States on December 7, 2023*

I recently acquired the book "You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation," and I must say it's a beautiful addition to my collection. The book arrived perfectly packaged and looked like new. The cover and pages were in excellent condition, making it a visually appealing addition to my bookshelf.As for the content, the exploration of communication dynamics between women and men is insightful and thought-provoking. The author's perspective offers a fresh and engaging take on understanding the nuances of conversation between genders. I appreciate the clarity of the writing style, making complex concepts accessible and compelling.Overall, I love this book. It not only provides valuable insights into communication patterns but also does so in a way that is approachable and enjoyable to read. If you're interested in the dynamics of communication between men and women, this book is a must-have, and getting a copy in such pristine condition only enhances the reading experience.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    Should be required reading
  

*by D***F on Reviewed in the United States on September 21, 2022*

Science-based rational examination of the different ways people communicate. Delineates many distinct "styles," some of which we may have sensed but not fully appreciated.While the book speaks in general of "men versus women," of course it's more nuanced than that. My first reading was years ago, but it warrants a periodic reread. Very helpful in appreciating subtext, as most people really don't say exactly what they mean.More than perhaps ever before, we need to be more precise in our communication--and Dr. Tannen's work is an excellent place to start.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ 4.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    OK, but Embellished
  

*by K***K on Reviewed in the United States on June 10, 2023*

The examples of dialog seem embellished. For example, when the author recounts an interaction with a waitress, the reply of the waitress seems...I don't know, theatrical? I believe the author has some great insights important for people to know. But all you really need to know about the interactions between men and women is that men assess and react to all interactions by gauging the level of threat to themselves, their families, or livelihoods. This is, by far, the most interesting insight. Whereas women see, "How are you doing today?" as sincere request for information, men see it as a need to defend their position and a potential reminder for their shortcomings, whatever that may be...in work, love, home, etc. But it depends on the person asking. It all comes down to one-upmanship. Men see other men as either one up or one down. I think women do this too, but not as dramatically. So when you ask your husband if he took out the trash, he sees this as a need to defend himself. Either he did it, proving he's a man of his word, or he didn't and he must now defend himself against being seen as failure. It all makes sense now, but I got that from the first chapter.I also sense that this book, written by a woman, takes an unconscious bias towards women and rather than a neutral and scholarly approach, this attempts to defend the discourse style of women. It reads more like a self-help book for women. Which is fine, but it's not neutral if that's what you're looking for.

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