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"It's an important lesson to teach and remind us all . . . that showing kindness and appreciation of others goes a long way to making this world a happier place for everyone, including ourselves. A classic tale, beautifully told and beautifully shared."--Emily-Jane Hills Orford, Readers' Favorite Book Reviews While using a simple metaphor of a bucket and a dipper, author Carol McCloud illustrates that when we choose to be kind, we not only fill the buckets of those around us, but also fill our OWN bucket! Conversely, when we choose to say or do mean things, we are dipping into buckets. All day long, we are either filling up or dipping into each other's buckets by what we say and what we do. When you're a bucket filler, you make the world a better place to be! This book is perfect for children, parents, grandparents, teachers and people that want to teach empathy, nurture, kindness and create a positive environment in their home, classroom, workplace and community. Review: Story time is the best time! - As a preschool teacher with more than two decades in the classroom, Iโve seen countless trends in early childhood education come and go โ but highโquality stickers, engaging books, and openโended art materials have never lost their magic. These simple tools continue to be some of the most powerful ways to support both fine and gross motor development, all while keeping learning joyful. Review: Wonderful explanation of kindness for young children. Gets them thinking. - Wonderful book, good for a wide range of ages. Kids, especially toddlers, have a tendency to be a bit self centered - me, me, me! I bought this book to read with my three year old and my husband, who is a third grade teacher, says he had planned to buy it for his students. Using the bucket analogy, this is a clever way to explain to children how important it is to be kind to others, giving simple examples along the way. My three year old can be not so kind to her little sister. Lately, she has been catching herself and saying things to the effect of "Oh I don't want to dip into her bucket, I want to fill her bucket" and then will give her a toy or something. Or at least will stop pushing her around! The book is definitely repetitive which is slightly annoying but very typical for kids books. This isn't a typical read and put aside type of book. It really is a spring board for conversation, as I think another review described it as. It's also a book that my three year old WANTS to read and often. As to the criticism that it does not discuss filling our own buckets... well, I think MOST kids already do that. Certainly toddlers do that all day long. So I think perhaps its not good for the overly people pleasing 8 year olds of the world but for any child who needs some gentle encouragement to think of others, this works! One last note - my grandmother used to always compliment / talk to strangers, especially if they were alone. Just something simple and sincere. And she would say "you never know if perhaps no one else talked to them all day" And she's right! Our world could use a lot more kindness and I think this is a good start.





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| Customer Reviews | 4.8 out of 5 stars 9,083 Reviews |
J**E
Story time is the best time!
As a preschool teacher with more than two decades in the classroom, Iโve seen countless trends in early childhood education come and go โ but highโquality stickers, engaging books, and openโended art materials have never lost their magic. These simple tools continue to be some of the most powerful ways to support both fine and gross motor development, all while keeping learning joyful.
E**F
Wonderful explanation of kindness for young children. Gets them thinking.
Wonderful book, good for a wide range of ages. Kids, especially toddlers, have a tendency to be a bit self centered - me, me, me! I bought this book to read with my three year old and my husband, who is a third grade teacher, says he had planned to buy it for his students. Using the bucket analogy, this is a clever way to explain to children how important it is to be kind to others, giving simple examples along the way. My three year old can be not so kind to her little sister. Lately, she has been catching herself and saying things to the effect of "Oh I don't want to dip into her bucket, I want to fill her bucket" and then will give her a toy or something. Or at least will stop pushing her around! The book is definitely repetitive which is slightly annoying but very typical for kids books. This isn't a typical read and put aside type of book. It really is a spring board for conversation, as I think another review described it as. It's also a book that my three year old WANTS to read and often. As to the criticism that it does not discuss filling our own buckets... well, I think MOST kids already do that. Certainly toddlers do that all day long. So I think perhaps its not good for the overly people pleasing 8 year olds of the world but for any child who needs some gentle encouragement to think of others, this works! One last note - my grandmother used to always compliment / talk to strangers, especially if they were alone. Just something simple and sincere. And she would say "you never know if perhaps no one else talked to them all day" And she's right! Our world could use a lot more kindness and I think this is a good start.
S**N
Easy to read!
This book was perfect for my 1st and second grade students! They loved learning about how to be a bucket filler
M**M
must have in any library
Having two boys at home they say some pretty out of the normal things; well my oldest came home calling his brother a bucketdipper and well my mind went somewhere else and at that point of course I had to research where this word came from ... and this is why I ordered this book. My oldest who is in Kindergarten was read this book in class and was taught that when saying or doing something not so nice thet was "bucket dipping" which hence the term "bucketdipper." Now there are many reasons thet someone can be a bucketdipper the book goes on to show many examples. The example I found extremely useful for children to understand which was when someone is hurt they hurt others; I loved this exampl of a bucketdipper. When someone is a bucketdipper they not only dip into another bucket but they also dip into their own hence not really helping themselves by choosing to be men or have a bad attitude. Now the point is to be a bucket filler the bucket fillers when filling others buckets also fill their own as it feels good to help others feel good. This book allows children to self reflect and think about how to not only earn stickers or checks for their own end reward but how to help others most importantly and feeling good about it as a reward in itself. I highly recommend the collection of these books as it is a great lesson for adults and children alike anyone can benefit from self reflection at any age.
M**A
Bucket Filling Books Presents: A Childrens' Guide to Daily Happiness
Research shows that Empathy must be taught. Empathy, learning to care about how other people feel and how our actions can affect other people negatively or positively. This book was written to help any one really no matter what age you are to make the goal of being a bucket filler not one that puts holes in other peoples bucket. The BUCKET SYMBOLIZES EACH INDIVIDUALS SOCIAL NEEDS TO FEEL LIKE THEY BELONG. Maslows Heirarchy of needs lists social needs (belongingness) right above the basic survival and physical needs such as shelter; food; clothing; warmth SAFETY etc. When a person has those basic needs met they still need more in order to be able to learn progress and be successful in life. "Belongingness" or 'fitting in' is a big motivator. Learning to fit in in ways that help others to also feel accepted and encouraged. This book and others in her set is loved by children, teachers and families - Empathy for others can promote harmony in just about every relationship and will when each person in the relationship strive to be A BUCKET FILLER! i hope you love it too.
C**L
Downloadable materials online
I'm very impressed by this one. Not often do you find the entire book...in the preview of the ad. The entire book was viewable before purchasing. That actually made me buy it. I really enjoyed the kindness of that act. As for the book itself, it's very nicely made. It will definently survive my 4 year old reading it alone. He's gentle so if your child is still rough, this may be a parent and them type adventure. The colors and drawings are beautifully executed and there are no errors that I noticed up front. The concept of the story is awesome. I've heard of this before but I love how it's illustrated for younger children. I disagree with other parents who complained the book didn't explain about "filling your own bucket" because that's something YOU should be going into depth with. This book can't cover EVERYTHING but it opens a GREAT conversation with you and your children. This book gives you key words to work with and they even have additional free printouts available on their website. There are other books in the series that seem like they will be also fun to explore. I would reccomend this to parents who are trying to teach manners, emotions, and possibly as a tool to explain mean people or sad people.
B**N
Bent book
It is a great book, but when I got it and opened the packaging envelope, it is all bent up. I need it for my curriculum in school so I cannot even return it.
B**R
2 yr olds are learning the consequences of kindness & meanness in a simple but effective story
I bought this for my twin grandsons' 2nd birthday. We've read it several times a week for the last 6 months, usually at their request. I was happily surprised to see that they understood the concept and we apply it to what they do. When one gives a favorite toy to the other we say, "look at his face, he's smiling and happy, YOU are filling his bucket". When one grabs something and runs, we explain the dipping. I often ask the boys when they do something if they think they are filling or emptying a bucket, and they usually get it right. I love that they understand that concept already. We like this book so much that we gave it to several friends' children for Christmas this past year. It would be nice if the writing could get some editing to flow more smoothly, but the story and the illustrations are great. I read the critical reviews comparing it to Dr Seuss drawings (our home is filled with well-loved Dr Seuss books) but we disagree with the criticism. The illustrations here are simple because the focus should be on the bucket and seeing how we fill or empty it by our actions. If the page was filled with color and activity, that focus would be lost. If the writing was better, it would be a perfect book.
G**A
Really nice book
Really nice book! I really recommend it. Help children understand and practice the kindness to others. The kids see sometimes why people are sad and have a bad behave.
N**A
Loved it
Absolutely loved the book, a must have book for every kid. Thank you
C**R
PERFECTO
Perfecto
T**A
Great kids book
Great book. We have used this book as a springboard to talk about how we treat people impacts ourselves and others. Would recommend
W**S
heartwarming read
My 3.5-year-old loves it. It's incredibly accessible for toddlers and sparks wonderful conversations about kindness. A definite must-have!
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