--- product_id: 51463312 title: "Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself" brand: "dr aziz gazipura" price: "฿3065" currency: THB in_stock: false reviews_count: 13 url: https://www.desertcart.co.th/products/51463312-not-nice-stop-people-pleasing-staying-silent-and-feeling-guilty store_origin: TH region: Thailand --- # Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself **Brand:** dr aziz gazipura **Price:** ฿3065 **Availability:** ❌ Out of Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself by dr aziz gazipura - **How much does it cost?** ฿3065 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Currently out of stock - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.co.th](https://www.desertcart.co.th/products/51463312-not-nice-stop-people-pleasing-staying-silent-and-feeling-guilty) ## Best For - dr aziz gazipura enthusiasts ## Why This Product - Trusted dr aziz gazipura brand quality - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | Best Sellers Rank | #16,092 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #102 in Interpersonal Relations (Books) #125 in Self-Esteem (Books) | | Customer Reviews | 4.5 4.5 out of 5 stars (2,635) | | Dimensions | 6 x 1.26 x 9 inches | | Edition | Illustrated | | ISBN-10 | 098897987X | | ISBN-13 | 978-0988979871 | | Item Weight | 1.61 pounds | | Language | English | | Print length | 504 pages | | Publication date | October 17, 2017 | | Publisher | Center For Social Confidence, The | ## Images ![Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71AQIgFuMvL.jpg) ![Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself - Image 2](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71AemjGXcuL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing Results *by J***J on Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 21 July 2024* I don't usually leave book reviews but this one has had a profound impact on my life - no exaggeration. You really need to read the book, and take the information in. I personally didn't do many of the exercises in there, but I made a clear mental note of what I was reading, and made notes on the paragraphs and quotes from the book that I thought would help me best.I ordered this book a while ago, and after reading it I completely forgot it existed. I randomly had a thought about it today and looked over the past few months and I can honestly say I feel so much more confident in myself...I went on holiday a couple of weeks back and went solo to a Jet Ski tour company, as a shy introvert, doing anything alone like this would have absolutely scared me to death a year ago, but I breezed through it. There are tons of other examples of me being more confident and generally standing up for myself.My success may not be 100% related to this book, I've been on a wild journey reading a few other books and also getting some therapy, but I genuinely thing this book was the catalyst that made me realise how bad my nice guy tendencies where, and how much more worthy I am to be treated with respect, strongly express my boundaries and be fearless when telling people my needs and how I feel. Truly amazing. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars Amaizing *by C***A on Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 15 August 2024* I dont know how but the author combines perfectly self help with psychotherapy.The best self help book i have ever read.You always read these "people pleasing" list of traits which i neer identifed with. On his i found things i neverexpected. One was fear of retaliation.He also explains very well the consequences of being too nice like isolation.Im a clinical psychologyst and mostly read psychological books that are more scientific. I think if one buys this book and a book on investing in stock market, his life will be already 70% better.Not to mention that by not using the trendy "asserrive" term but the term "dont be nice", he really breaks through our psychological resistance. Because you gend to be assertive (whatever that means) but still be nice. But the fear that he is not nice is whst keeps someone as a people pleaser. So well done in breaking through my resistance and make me understand that for a while, i will have to tolerate the fear that people are not happy with me for putting myself first. Thats the key.Well done! ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ 4.0 out of 5 stars I was reading about me! *by B***P on Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 21 May 2020* My god! I'm blown away by this book. It's like reading about myself. The 5 specters of niceness all fit in with me so well. I knew that niceness comes with a cost but like the author, i too felt too guilty to do or say anything. I was just being nice, kind and compassionate . Reading this book has given me in depth insight into what actual cost i'm bearing for my niceness . Why do i feel undervalued ? why do i have constant headaches? . I understand myself much better now and like Aziz mentioned here, they are all unintentional; we have acquired and adapted niceness from our childhood experiences and many other factors in life. I'm so ready to dive into part 2 of the book which talks about actioning. I'm ready to change my destiny because i know i'm worth much more and being too nice just drains you. I highly recommend this book. Cheers to all the nice people in the world :) ## Frequently Bought Together - Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... 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